L.M.M., 429 Mass. He is doing good in school. Married, 4yr old son and baby on the way, Im a military man. The secound time was because they wouldnt allow my daughter to ride the school bus to my home. I have two question? His dad told me hed had a bike accident. he seved his time and paid his debt. Examples include failing to return a child after a visitation, refusing the other parent the right to see them, or even influencing the child's opinion of the other parent. Upon sending my son down there, I signed and got notarized a paper my father supplied, stating I give him custody of my son for medical and school purposes. Best of luck! If you share the children simple as this, when your child is with mom, then mom is responsible to make sure the child has what he/she needs, or if the child is with dad, then dad is responsible for making sure the child has what he/she needs. I was wondering that since all the erroneous emails not only put my daughter in a stressful state but seemed an obvious attempt to have my child removed from my care; if he can be charged with custodial interference (where hes not related) or something else? You cannot control him nor he you. If you admit it, apologize and offer make up time, paying for transport, etc. In that time he met his ex-girlfriend, S.R., with whom he has a 5 year old son, Jr. O., with. He cant stop you from seeing your daughter without a court order. Many school districts have jobs for paras and for para subs even being a sub gets your foot in the door. what you do not want is a case that she is saying you have kidnapped the child, so please check your state laws. judges dont take kindly to a party that ignores a court order. Can the police really charge me with custodial interference if there is no official visitation set up? Can I file custodial interference or harassment or anything to prevent him from doing this again ? Can I now go for full custody? In other words, you know how to take advantage of our legal system in your favor. Did he do anything about it? I feel my son is the better parent and not just because hes my son. Now she wants to stop all visits per the doctors/school (supposably thats their recommendation) and wait a year or two for me to get my visits. Can I get law enforcement involved so i can see my child, My family has contacted CPS and reported false allegations against myself the mother and biological father of our daughter my family is doing this all of course out of malice and vindictiveness towards me because we recently I had a bad falling out.a, family falling out that occurred recently I was contacted by CPS today and I told them that my daug How you can love your children and think their father is a sperm donor is beyond my comprehension as a woman. However, she is now saying she wont let my son see him any more unless theres a court order. How do you know he went somewhere without the supervisor/father? It posted separately so Im posting again under yours as a reply. even more so when he found out that we had been living in Fl. If he doesnt respond and make plans then I would tell him that if he doesnt keep his visitation that he may put himself in a position to lose custody, but he will definitely break her heart. My Exs parents havent been here in 2 years, and my family hasnt been here in 4 months. The ONLY thing that stopped them was it was a Friday night and they couldnt determine weekend status (visitation) so I won that one. She has not worked since 2003. The first one to create drama WILL be the first to get their hand slapped! Go in to court and ask to take a drug test immed.file a temp restraining order on him for safety due to his drunkennessdoes he have any DUIs.document in a notebook every time he keeps her with out your consentso what if you withdrew affection from himhe abandoned you and child every weekend and then abandoned you both to the effect of being inebriated with alcoholif there is drugs either you or him or you and him have him drug tested as well call your local legal aid office. Ill be praying for you that everything works out for the best for you and your family. Anyone know if this is correct? She paid $20 weekly for child support and I got nothing for daycare, medical insurance, medicine, diapers, but she could buy $150 sneakers, get her nails done, party, and more. Imminent harm, for example, is a commonly accepted defense. Neither of us has filed for seperation or custody. I WOULD OPEN AS MANY CASES TO PROVE, HOW WICKED PPL ARE, ESPECIALLY FAMILY OK IM MAD BUT DARN, I LIVE IN MY CAR FOR MONTHS. ive been on both sides non custodial parant and costodial parant.my x has our son she doesnt bring him on my weekend visition and they wont do nothing. She may be blowing smoke on school recomendations, I would contact school and keep informed of sons academics and progress. 15.110 - Investigating Custodial Interference. The mother has kept minimal contact with my step son. What do you think. She comes up with excuses periodically to prevent my son from seeing his father. All i want in the world is to see my son even if for a minute but she wont allow it. I have been told that many times from those I have tried to get to enforce a court order as well as friends in law enforcement. "A child may be a member of a nontraditional family in which he is parented by a legal parent and a de facto parent. During a divorce, these competing rights might seem to be at odds. Jurisdiction Spent 12 years in FL. Jury instructions give jurors a framework to help them understand how the law applies to the evidence they've heard during trial so they can use it to reach a verdict. Fines and fees. My son wants to live with me, but she says no! They told me to go and wait until he was transported to the jail and then I could get him out. You will need to weigh out which state you would have the as stance in and file there. He wanted me and the other children, not his biologically, to move with him but I did not think it was in their best interest to do so especially in the middle of the school year. There is no offical agreeement in place. The Judge over there REFUSED to return the children to USA stating the children are mature enough and their views are to be taken into consideration and that the older child(10 years old) does not wish go back to USA. I had to pay extra to send a lab tech to my exs residence to collect hair samples and with my daughter effectively non-cooperative the tech was only able to get a small sample of hair, that will possibly be an insufficient amount for testing purposes but most likely she will test positive as well. If it lingers too long the judge will look at it as culpable neglagence and ignore you. They told me to go and wait until he was transported to the jail and then I could get him out. If a custodial parent denies the non-custodial parent his rightful, court-ordered visitation, what recourse does the non-c parent have? Grandparents have absolutely no power in a custody matter unless the natural parents are deceasedor incompetenteven if the parents are in jail they have to have some say in the situation when it comes to adoption unless it is ordered by a judge ex parte. Sweetcajun, I dont mean to be disrespectful, but what eutopian socity do you live in? And the father matters and has irreplaceable value? The courts will see what an unstable basket case your x is.. Keep your head up and your arms around your child ..Someday this will be over with and you will be able to move on and be Happy while the x rots somewhere where he belongs.. Good luck to you and your little girl:). How do we proceed to make the law be upheld by our state attorneys office. She couldnt because she was already at work. WHICH IS THEIR JOB! 301 Yamato Rd #4110, Boca Raton, FL 33431, United States. Depending on the judge it may or may not get addressed but a judge is required to review and enforce a court order yet is also given leway under the law to make adjustments. Recently though, she has started to be more neutral during conversations, and has even corrected her dad a few times and defended me. I dont want my children to be around her because he has told me that she cries because she isnt their mommy. How do I file tax fraud? If you want sole legal custody you will have to make that request to the court. She returned 48hrs later and we signed a parenting time agreement that laid out dates and times as well as our agreement for shared legal and physical custody of our daughter that we would follow until mediation. I went and filed for court the other day to see about getting the every other weekend like the normal way, my fathers son got his mail and texted flipping out. You will need to look up and familiarize yourself with the Florida Statutes Section 61 in particular (this is something for everyone to look up your state statutes and familiarizer yourself with the laws of your state with respects to child custody). I know the case is very stressful. Your kids dont care how much you may dislike your ex-husband. If your son called you and he wants to talk to you, even if hes adopted, you may want to pursue a relationship through the adopted parents by talking to THEM and saying that you dont want to interfere with their parenting and you appreciate them adopting your son and you only want what is best for him. I am a custodial parent and due to the fact the noncustodial parent is on probation for 2years now for a possession charge, has had a job in 2years, has no car, and lives at a motel.also doesnt pay child support I have moved (not out of state) without giving him any information on our residence. Now, If the 17 1/2 year old child decides he wants to spend the entire 2 weeks with the noncustodial parent (his dad). The Parenting Plan shows that I am supposed to have our daughter that weekend. Second dont be spiteful. Official websites use .mass.gov. They never hear his attory words. They saw my son my husband etc. the biological fathers mom took my son for the day so my baby daddy and I could go out until we moved at three but we packed all our stuff along with our sons into her truck before she dropped us off. Perhaps also put in the letter some verbiage that non-objection to this request is consider consent. Get a mediator. My bf and his xgf have a child together and there is no custody agreement. The childs uncle was very impatient and would not stay past 10 minutes. I just dont know what to do! I hope this helped you out a little and if I can help any more just let me know. or if the girlfriend is the one visiting with your child bullshit. They absolutely love eachother! Please let us know how we can improve this page. She has screwed me over time and time again with visitation and frankly made it a living hell just to be a part of his life. My ex husband lives in another state the I do with my kids. My ex husband and I share joint custody of our 5 yr old son. I will be at work, and I have proof as my pay stubs show the actual dates worked. Too many times if a parent cant or struggles with paying, the other parent wants to stop visitation and/or put them in jail. My ex and his new wife have a child of thier own. I have recently been awarded a different timeshare because I am moving from Northern California to Southern California, the judge has granted me permission to move with the children with liberal visitation to their father. Because the father isnt working to pay the support that probably isnt being used by the child but used for mom, who is oh-so busy, likely getting her nails done with that child support money? Today was one of my days for visitation. the kids dont want to see her they are 6 and 11. My ex refuses to let me see our 13 yr. old son. I dont want much I just want to be able to talk to my son or even get him extra day or two on spring break or a week or two during the summer when hes not in school. My daughter desperately needs help, but no one seems to care. Not once has the local court done a thing regarding the violations. Sent certified letters to her of disappearance. Especially since she has no address of her own. What can I do in order to see my son before the court date? This could be fines, which is less likely as a judge assumes that a mother does not have the means to pay, he could issue time to be made up or go to one extreme or the other by doing nothing or changing who with be primary care giver. In the past few months my ex has 1: Had on 2 differenct occasions had room mates that have been arrested for selling drugs while living with him. 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